PART 1:
For Puerto Ricans Living in the States
Over years of writing
blogs and working with people I have always taken great pride in responding to
every comment and email and call. With over 100,000 readers here in the last
few days, dozens of comments here, hundreds on FB pages, and hundreds of emails,
please, please forgive me if yours has been lost in the shuffle. If you feel it
is important and I missed it, please send it to me again at
buzzdmalone@gmail.com and I will try to get back to you as soon as humanly
possible.
Before I begin to publicly
address some of the issues and comments raised I want to say a few words about
the earthquakes here out of recognition, based on emails, that the vast
majority of new readers are Puerto Ricans living elsewhere, worried and
desperately seeking anything from back home they can get their hands on.
For you, I want you to
know that this is not Maria. The island is not incapacitated. No one is waiting
helplessly for a federal government that may never respond. Your people here
are in good hands in their fellow Puerto Ricans. Just as your heart pours out
to the island now, the roads from every community pour into the small affected
area with goods and services of every imaginable kind. I cannot stress this
enough. Pray, and lobby, but rest easy. Your relatives here are being cared for
right now by people who know how to provide it because almost every caregiver
lived through Maria.
photos courtesy of Ramonita M Leandry FB Page |
I am not saying every
community is sending aid. I am saying every neighborhood is doing it. The line
of cars stretches for miles and people from all over the island wait for hours
only to drop off supplies. Nurses and doctors set up makeshift care facilities.
Restaurant owners are cooking giant meals. Hair stylists are washing hair
outside. Veterinarians and pet groomers are caring for animals. Entertainment
of all sorts is being provided, and of course, as always, there is music in the
streets.
Some people are afraid.
Some people are shaken up. Some people will experience a PTSD from so many
quakes happening in such a short amount of time. They will rightfully need
emotional care.
But also remember this
is Puerto Rico! Do not fill your head with bad thoughts of everyone being
ruined by this. They are strong and resilient and for every person who is in
fear, there are also tables full of old people sitting around playing dominoes,
who only raise their coffees when the earth begins to tremble, and steady their
dominoes with a free hand until it passes. Their greatest fear is spilling on
the game table and leaving a stain on the score sheet. They will scan their
surrounding when it stops, and if nothing is amiss, they will continue their
game as if nothing has happened.
If I assume that the
majority of the 100,000+ new readers of this blog are Puerto Ricans living in
the States as most of you seem to be based on comments and emails, then I would
say this. The administration continues to withhold $8.3 Billion in congressional
approved aid to Puerto Rico in the form of hurricane readiness monies to HUD.
This money would directly benefit the people right now. Housing and
infrastructure repair is the one long-term thing that the island will need to
recover.
There needs to be
another earthquake and it needs to happen in the offices of every US Senator
and Congress person in America from the shoes of Puerto Ricans and their
supporters, demanding that the administration release these funds immediately.
If a silly blog can get over 100,000 readers wanting to know what they can do
to help, then I am saying here is your chance. Your people back home in PR are
taken care of in the here and now. They need the government to do its part
though for long term aid, and that is how you can help most.
You can start by calling
your congressional delegation. The switchboard in Washington DC will be able to
put you in contact with your US Representative, and your two (2) US Senators,
so you have at least 3 angry calls to make.
US Congressional Switchboard# 202-224-3121
Next, is to reach out to
other Puerto Ricans in your state. Trust me, we have heard from a dozen living
in our home state of Iowa and there are few whiter places on earth, so if there
are a number of Puerto Ricans there, there are Puerto Ricans everywhere. Use
social media to find one another or ask unemployed activists (like yours truly)
to help.
When you have half a
dozen or more people willing to start marching into their Congressional
offices, you have a political army. That is what it will take too. No elected
official in Fargo, North Dakota, or Billings, Wyoming, is going to give a shit
about the suffering of the people of Ponce until you force them to.
Part 2:
For Everyone Else Who Wants to Help Puerto Rico
I will no doubt get some
negative feedback about this or people saying I should direct people to give to
this or that. So, I will preface by saying that everything in this here blog
represents only my OPINION.
That having been said, I
would say to everyone in the world that if they have an interest in helping
Puerto Rico, then they should immediately and without hesitation, book their
next vacation here. Because, outside of a very small area, the island is
completely open for business. Even the Bioluminescent Bay in nearby Lajas has
continued to allow visitors the opportunity to swim among the stars of the
ocean, with food and drink in businesses served by backup power.
The absolute worst thing
that could happen right now is for people to cancel plans or not come here.
That creates an economic ripple effect. The only reason that the people can
take such good care of one another right now is that the rest of the island
continues to operate and function normally. Like the wait staff at one of our
restaurants last weekend who had pooled their tip moneys and were eager to end
their shift and head south with supplies for the earthquake victims, the cycle
of self help depends upon the rest of the island's businesses humming.
So, the people and
businesses of Rincon, San Juan, El Yunque, and everywhere in between want to
let you know that the island is up and running! The lights are on and a warm
beach and cold drink are waiting for you. NO PASSPORT NEEDED for AMERICANS!
It's part of the US!
Finally, we have
received HUNDREDS of communications and so many were simply blessings and well
wishes from Puerto Ricans here and around the globe. Let us begin by saying our
hearts have been moved beyond words by you all. A million blessings in return.
Your outpouring is an
example of why we love Puerto Rico so much, and in one form or another, we have
always been blessed to receive such a welcome from someone everywhere we have
ever been on the island. We feel your love, and we radiate it back out into the
universe.
I wanted to publicly
address just a few of the comments here that stood out, or represented trends
or the like...
1. From my new friend
Jorge, Puerto Rico is NOT an island nation. It is a
Commonwealth of the United States. In fact, it is indistinguishable
from a state in your day to day living- except for the language, but you have
that in Florida with Miami and Orlando, and throughout the Southwest. To
combat the constant misconceptions about Puerto Rico on the Mainland, it is
important to accurately and consistently identify it as the United States any
chance we get. We are not an island nation; we are the United States.
Jorge
made an excellent point. And since we started this blog to basically educate
our people back in the states why we love Puerto Rico so much, we should always
remember to try be and consistent about that. I guess the poet in me gets
carried away and I just like the sound of "island nation." But it is
the United States, and you do not need a passport to come here.
2.
About God and Curses and Clickbait. Enough people (like half a dozen) took the time to write to
say they were upset about the blog title or the insinuation that the island was
cursed, that I wanted to say something. I do not believe the island is cursed
by God or anyone else. The point was that if you don't know Puerto Rico or
Puerto Ricans, it would be easy to make that assumption based on any number of
bad news headlines.
I
apologize to the people this offended. My intention was always to say that the
people here are amazing and blessed and generous and caring no matter what the
headlines say, or what might befall the island.
It was
also said a few times that I used a catchy headline as clickbait to get more
readers. Guilty. That is how headlines work. And since at last count it has
resulted in like 125,000 new readers, I doubt I will learn any lasting lessons
regarding the negative impact of sensationalism. Also... not making a dime from
the blog.
3. My
use of "these people" means I am a racist. If you walk through life looking to be
offended, you will be. There is enough evil and racism to fight in the world
without choosing battles where there isn't one.
When I
am not an unemployed blog and novel writer, I have spent the bulk of my career
as a labor union organizer and civil rights activist. I have very much lived my
life by the words of Eugene Debs that state "while there is a lower
class I am in it, while there is a criminal element I am of it, and while there
is a soul in prison, I am not free."
Meaning
that if I separate myself from a group of people as I did by using "these
people," it is only because I aim to say that I feel unworthy of being
included in the group. I am only a tourist here because I honestly don't know
if I would climb from the rubble of my own home and have my first thought be
about my neighbors. I do know, however, from having witnessed many acts of
selfless heroism, that my wife, Lorri, would always be the first to dive into a
stranger's burning home, or overturned car (seen it) and offer a nurse's
aid.
I am
deeply moved by the people here. "These people" inspire me every
day.
4. I am
a Capitalist Living the High Life of an Imperialist Colonizer. Lol. Love this. So many big words. If you follow
social media closely, you might believe you would hear this kind of stuff
frequently on the island. Truth is, I have yet to ever hear anything like it
outside of FB, or a few emails. Sort of reminds me of some of my friends back
home with their little red Trump hats and angry laptops though.
Again,
Lorri's career was in training and quality at a non-profit blood center serving
hospitals. Mine was in labor and civil rights. Neither career exactly pushed us
to the upper echelon of capitalist societal elite. We bought art to support
local artists on installment plans. We gave to charities and causes until our
bank accounts begged for mercy or over drafted.
We
began vacationing in Puerto Rico many years ago because it was affordable. We
kept coming back because we loved the people. When our youngest went off to
college, we decided to move here for a while. We are too poor to retire
forever. It just seemed like a great place to spend some time so I could write
and Lorri and could pursue her passion for creating art in wood, while we
figured out what we were going to be when we grew up... again. Our being here
this winter is sort of what happens when adult children leave their parents
unsupervised. We sold our home and most belongings in Iowa and came here in
October.
The
fact is, if we stay here, we would probably be flat broke by August. We wanted
to join the capitalist colonialization and exploitation of the island's
resources for fun and profit and amassing of private fortunes but turns out we
were sick that day.
5.
Blessings. We
cannot begin to tell you all how much your words have meant to us. The
outpouring of blessings and love and kindness have moved us to our very core.
We have never felt so blessed. A million times over, thank you all. THIS is
what we love about the island and the people here. To an extent, this is the
way we have always been made to feel here. Welcome, loved, special, blessed,
cared about. Familia.
That is
the Puerto Rico we know and the one we love, and we will take it with us
always, and swear to do our best to spread that love to strangers, regardless
of color or country or language, in all of our travels no matter where we go...
just like so many Puerto Ricans have done for us here so many times.
All of
our love.
Buzz
and Lorri Malone
buzzdmalone@gmail.com
I read your "cursed" blog today and you made my day. But after reading this one, I must tell you, again, you made my day... twice.
ReplyDeleteIf I ever needed someone to articulate and write my thoughts, I think I found that someone, it would be you. I am so grateful for you and Lorri.
If you ever want to translate your blog to spanish, please let me know.
Here goes another blessing to overflow your bucket!! God bless you both!
Bah! Maribel! How sweet are you?!? We are going to have to hunt you down one of these days and deliver a hug in person.
DeleteExcellent piece!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the updates! Hugs and Love from Southern Iowa!
ReplyDeleteHey Becky! Hugs and love right back!
DeleteThis was so much fun to read. So happy that I found your blog today!
ReplyDeleteGabby, we are so happy you enjoyed it. Hope you keep coming back for more. We have a lot more great stories to share from Puerto Rico!
DeleteGod bless you always. This made my heart smile. Thank you
ReplyDeleteAwww. Thank you. Knowing that people are finding joy in our words has given us so much joy ourselves. Gracias.
DeleteThanks. I Luke tour blog.
ReplyDeleteThank you! We are happy you liked it.
DeleteEnjoyed reading this piece. I came here six years ago, lived through Maria and now this and can still say there is no place like home ... love mi Puerto Rico.
ReplyDeleteIt is a magic place indeed. Thank you for reading.
DeleteThanks a lot for loving our Island and our people! More like you are need it here. I'm in Ponce, been sleeping outside for the last week heading to Rincon today to enjoy ourselves until Sunday. Love your blog it really did my day
ReplyDeleteMary, please email us at buzzdmalone@gmail.com and let us know if there is anything we need to be sharing with people. We have had hundreds of Puerto Rican people from the states sending prayers and worrying over the people of Ponce, and we are among them. YOU are in our thoughts and prayers. Please stay strong and do not be afraid to reach out.
DeleteWe also moved from the craziness of California to Rincon. This place is a paradise. Gov't corruption? PR is an amateur compared to CA. :) Thanks for sharing your words.
ReplyDeleteArleen, Love the perspective there. That is funny stuff. I was just responding to a comment on another post and was saying it is funny to me that Stateside Americans are simply appalled by the thought of something like an unreliable electrical grid, or internet outages, but are seemingly fine with a healthcare system that bankrupts or kills millions of people every year. And while I have never lived in California, I know from a ton of work experience there that LA and San Francisco traffic makes San Juan gridlock seem like mere child's play. I once left my hotel to drive into San Francisco in the morning. GPS said I had a 45 minute drive when I started then everything turned red. After three hours, as I was sitting on the bridge, GPS said I still had another two hours to go. Lol. Yeah. Rincon and PR are pretty alright. Thanks for reading. Hope to bump into you on the beach here one day! ;)
DeleteYour responses are just so amazing. You made my day all over again. Since discovering your blog, I've found myself saying a lot, "Hey, you don't believe this Puerto Rican living in Maryland when she talks about the island? Then read what this American from Iowa living in Rincon has to say about it."
ReplyDeleteThank you, again. Please keep sharing your adventures and point of view! Hugs from two mofongo-disliking Puerto Ricans. <3
Nicole A. You are my most favorite repeat offender commenter of the evening. I have equally enjoyed reading your comments! And truly, genuinely, no B.S., having people find joy or value in this gives us so much joy. You have no idea. What an amazing experience. We are meeting so many incredible people. Can't wait to see what happens next myself! -Buzz
DeletePS... doing some free reading of my own last night. Something about a horse jumping stuff. Lorri was a mule person before she was a horse person. I think you guys would have to be like sworn enemies or something? Not sure how that works.
DeleteLol! Not at all re: mule people and horse people being enemies! Or maybe I just wasn't raised that way. ;) Unfortunately I have not had any opportunities of working with mules, but I hear that people that love mules and can get mules to love them, are cut from a very special mold. Lorri gets my utmost admiration! And even if that hadn't been the case, I would have loved her anyway because of Pilar! (We have 1 and 3/4 cats. The 3/4 cat is also undead. True story.)
DeleteI think you'll like my "wait for the jump" reference...it's why I kept the name despite changing the subject matter with my second blog. :) Back in the day when I rode jumpers, I was known for having a knack for being good with really hot, fast horses. I had a tendency to rush fences when jumping because of it, and my trainer was always shouting, "WAIT FOR THE JUMP!" I was supposed to chill out, sit back, and let the jump come to my horse and me.
I am impatient in general, so it was my mom that then started saying it to me in my every day life every time I would want to rush a decision. Set your sights on the things you want and plan for them, but chill and let them come to you. I've applied it to everything I've achieved ever since. It ties in nicely with my favorite quote, "When you want something, the Universe conspires in helping you achieve it." (From Paulo Coehlo's The Alchemist)
Speaking of quotes! I was a huge Richard Bach fan growing up...Illusions was one of my faves of his books! I have some of the quotes you've mentioned on the blog written in my old college notebooks. There are so many cool parallels between yours and Lorri's story and ours...my husband Carlos is also a nurse, and that's just the beginning. The story of how we got to the States is different from how you guys ended up in Puerto Rico, but it involved the same spirit of, "It's now or never."